Last one I promise

I don't like re-reading my dumb posts about my Autumn troubles, but I'm going to write one more (well, probably not though. But I'll try)

I know what I want.

She said I don't know what I want, but I have thought about it and I have hashed it out and it explains a lot.

I want someone who by being around them, I become a better person. Physically, mentally, and spiritually.

That's it. That is all. If they're fun, hot, funny, interesting, smart, socially comfortable, sane, etc. those are preferred but secondary. (And anyway those will be byproducts of the main goal.)

Now my task is this, to become the person that the person I'm looking for is looking for.